Does every divorce suck or can it work out OK It looks like I'm heading down this path. My wife and I can't get along with anything anymore. It is a x/x blame for our circumstance. My question is can the divorce work out for both of us if she stays angry at me? I'm concerned about putting our x kids through this x,x,x. She's a good mother and loves the kids but she's also become hard headed and I don't know how she'll react. Being kind and affectionate is not her strong suit. She can have a mean moment and she can have a nice moment but overall she's rather indifferent, a closed minded person. Tough question without details but I just want to know if it's possible to get through a divorce without it becoming ugly. BTW, no cheating occurred we just argue.

It's gonna suck She will be mean and vindictive, she already is.

I know I could see that as I was thinking of what to write. I guess the real question is how can I minimize it?