Would like to say Thank you to my husband!! I was really bored today, decided to read a few of the problems on here. I would like to give a shout out to my husband. i seriously texted him and said Thank You for being a dedicated worker, wonderful provider, great dad,and faithful husband. You have your flaws but wouldn't be you without them. I LOVE YOU. I can not beleive that amount of problems I see and read and hear from friends. I am SO glad that after almost 7 years of marriage, 9 years together, 2 beautiful and through all our hardships we still have what we have and came out on top. I wish more people had this in their lives and I come from divorced parents who can't stand the sight of each other, and a cheating mother. So you can be what you want to be, have what you want to have, just be smart and don't make comprimises for less than you deserve!!!Good men are out there!! Quit picking the looser just because they may be super good looking and they like you,(the depressed because I'm not gorgeous girl), because "they have potential" because he'll change for me or my . people don't change unless THEY want to!! Once again thank you God for answering my prayers, thank you for putting me though trials and tribulations, thank you for being there and giving me a brain!

The I'm better than you posts never go over well. If you have something to say in reply to help these people out, then reply in their thread. Throwing out a TP to people out and say you are smarter than they are is just classless. I feel sorry for your husband. If you need attention this much, then perhaps you should talk to your husband. I'm sure since you are of course perfect, he will provide you with all of the attention you need. Get over yourself, and I wish you luck getting the giant chip surgiy removed from your shoulder.

Oh Geeze I have nothiing o say to anyone! if i had I did. check for yourself. I just think its sad that this "room" is full of bad and no good wanted to put in something positive. No way am I perfect but don't you think people need somethign to be hopeful for. God help you. I get into fights over stupid shit but am realizing how lucky I am!!!

You ed people out and said quite clearly that you are smarter than them, and did it with a top post that had nothing to do with a marriage or LTR question. People come here for advice, not to be ed out by Mrs. holier than thou. Your not smarter than eveyone else, you don't have a better marriage than everyone else, your not the best thing in the world. Regardless of what you might think. Your post came off as thank god I'm not you, which quite frankly is just pathetic in every possible way. Calling people out in a top post is completely uned for, and, well, just mean. As such my view of you is you are a mean person, and so I feel sorry for your husband for having to live with you.

Positive marriage posts are not wanted? How stupid is that?? The jealousy on this fo is disgusting.

Positive except that she basiy implied that everyone with problems here is not what she is. Smart, reasonable, blessed etc. So it's basiy her extolling her own virtues by the end of the post.

Positive is fine. relating to everyone that she is smarter, and better, and ing out posters is mean. and mean people suck!

I took it as her trying to be encouraging, not so much as her being so awesome. I like seeing posts where people are grateful for their SOs.

mean people Mean people don't invite friends that are in 6 months preamature labor and have been in a hospital on bed rest come stay in their home when they have no where to go. All becasue she's is having similiar problems that you find on here wiht her B/F. FACT is i was NOT CALLING PEPOLE OUT. I was talking about my poor neighbor, who I care for her through the summer and help out with her 3yr old still. 4 4 dads and very depressed for the exact reason I stated about bad self image when infact she is a beautiful woman!!! Shows how SMART you are. I'm far from mean! But I sure am BLESSED

Your post was a mixed bag. Some positive and some that came across as accusing or rubbing people's noses in their troubles. Rather than intending it that way, I think you may have been feeling exasperated with your neighbor. You might have done well to clarify that you were talking about a particular person and not seemingly shotgunning criticism at everyone in the forum who might see some element of it in their own lives. God knows women are critical enough of themselves. They don't need outside help!

I get what your saying but i was talking about her, but alot of women have the same problem. It was more to intill confidence in women, not hurt them. Very few women have what I have these days and sometimes people need a reminder that the good men ARE out there!!

apparently, so is the intelligence nobody said 'positive' posts were bad ... its when you make a point of stating how lucky, how much better, how great YOU/YOURS are compared to everyone else (a.k.a the pathetic masses). You see, us 'pathetic people' take offense.

You started strong It's always good to let the ones you love who support you know you are grateful. If you'd have stopped there I'd say your post was a winner. But by the end you sounded like a motivational speaker that no one was looking for. Maybe that's just me.