My sister is SO fucking sour. Always so negative. I told her I told my landlord I was moving... then changed my mind, and that it was up in the air whether I was going to have to move. I told my sister that the landlord can't evict me in nyc, and she's all like "you need to leave." Here's her FB message to me: I really, really urge you to accept that you can't stay in your apt and move forward with plans. I just don't think you want to get wrapped up with legal issues around eviction, and non-legal, more physical methods that might come from squatting in an apartment! Um, sour bitch? They extended my lease 4 months. WHY ARE YOU SO FUCKING NEGATIVE?

yuck. I hope she's hot and likes anal

she sounds paranoid

No, just negative. So, completely negative we kind of hate each other.

given your history with her the rest of us might not see it as quite so strongly blech... but family shit is always dicey because you have EONS of history and you gotta tolerate each other til the end

Here's the thing: I was the older brother and I was mean to her. I deserve her anger, even tho I've apologized for a long time for being mean. That said, besides me, she's still super, super negative. Just fucking kind of bitchy as shit.

you might have very little to do with (and everything to do with) her negativity. best just take it on a case by case basis, pay her common courtesy and expect the same from her.

She's infuriating. She tries to hurt to the core in any argument. After I apologized and have been helping her out a ton, we were on a family vacay, and she said something SUPER bitchy to me, like "Um, we didn't ask you, ok" on something I opined on harmlessly. I said "god, you're being a bitch." And she's like "I KNEW YOU DIDN;T CHANGE! I KNEW IT." She's so fucking stupid and annoying. I feel awful, but I don't like her.

does she think that she has catching up to do? maybe you never should have acknowledged that you ever did anything wrong. sounds like she's lording it over you. THATs not cool.

Maybe. I blame myself for being a bad brother I do. But not for some years have I done anything wrong, and she's had problems with many other people too. My mom says the same thing: she's "tough". Blechh. I adore my mom and dad, so it kills me to fundamentally dislike my sister.

Me too. About my brother. If we weren't related we'd never talk. Its okay, OP. It happens.

bitches are stupid tell them as little as possible about your life