Is she a tease, or just clueless? Invited to spend time at her house...she has a pool...in her invite, she emphasizes several times that the pool is private and dark and that I don't have to worry about bringing a suit. On the way over, she s to remind me about the pool. We spend a lovely time together talking...and never even walk over to the end of the yard with the pool. Maybe she didn't realize that hinting at skinny dipping was a bit of a tease?... I don't know, but it's frustrating.

Did -- then she started making excuses So that's why I'm thinking TEASE

if she asks you over again tell her that you're really looking forward to using her pool

F that! If she's gonna jerk you around on the first date, she's gonna do it forever. Either that or she freaked herself out.

maybe she lost her nerve

Yep, thats what I think

LOL!!!!!!!!!! (rilly???)

i is rilly in need of couseling and

nah. tell her you went to a public pool Take back your pool-going power! She does not get to yank you around like that with regards to submerging yourself in water!

Seize the pool so to speak

exactly!

a swimming tease? I have never heard of that Were you that desperate to go swimming?

If you want to it swimming... ...you can it that.

were you going over there for just NSA sex? Because to me, it sounds like you had a good time (you say you had a lovely time talking) and the fact that you did not hook up with her is inconsequential. I may have different values from you tho.

of course not. we only know what you have shared here. Thus, the confusion. How are we supposed to answer whether she is a tease or not given the minimal info you offer and then you freak out and say back off. Makes no sense.

Dude! methinks you doth protest too much...

that's what you get for thinking!

I won't make that mistake again for at least a few minutes