If I may top post once again.....I was wondering Last night for Valentines day, I was bombarded with all the ex's (who broke up with me because i wasnt good enough) trying to get back with me and not getting the hint when i said i was taken. why is it that i can be discarded, kicked to the curb, but then when they are alone and i am happy, they think i will drop everything and run to them... anyone else run into this? the holiday just made it more prominant. but it happened to me and 2 other girlfriends- just askin

I don't think I'd trust the "let's get back together on valentine's day" argument from a former partner. To me, it speaks of their loneliness much more than a desire to be with me, personally.

It has a deeper meaning Take it as a compliment. It means they want to fuck and that you are good enough to remember.

lol yes they want to fuck! they are men. one said he still has the wedding ring he never offered me....and we have been apart 3 yrs. I didnt even know there was a ring. and he has been married and had it annulled since we broke up"!?

I let one of my exes stop by and fuck me last night. Just because I was horny and I am not hooked up with anybody right now.

oh yeah i would totally do that too...if i were

yes i suppose it is a backhanded kind of compliment. but i think it is more that they didnt realize what they had (not trying to sound superior) and when the grass was not GREENER so to speak, they want it back

Yes. I actually just got a post-V-day from an ex. He knows better than to on valentine's day b/c I'm with someone, but still. Not very subtle, and I can't figure out what he wants. Stop ing me! BUT then, loneliness is not a very fun bedfellow. I've been there, so I'm sympathetic.

Foto's axiom #2 'Hope springs infernal'

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lol good one :) and it looks so good on you ;)

wow nice hair on you too...oh wait! that isnt you! :P

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it's not only the fact that they are lonely but everyone looks better in love, you are in love and happy therefore you look better and they are jealous, i know i have pretty much always had a love hate relationship with my ex, one minute i can love her and then the next i'm glad i'm not with her, now that's love.