NEw to the bi Community I just offiy came out of the closet about a year ago and I am getting quite used to it. Just afraid of telling my p's for fear of rejection... any advice? Whats the difference in finding a woman date than finding a man? how do I go about finding a date?? Is it any different than looking for a man to date?

Don't be afraid. Welcome, what a fucked up card we were delt, huh? we're too gay for the heteros and too straight for the homos, We're greedy? I just want the best of both worlds. If you realy feel the need to come out to your folks, better now and get it over with. But, if you don't feel it necessary, why bother? later on you may feel like being straight for a while and people all up in your business like that can get awkward and annoying. So, my advise is to do what feels good to you at the moment. And whomever you choose to play with is your business. Besides, we don't expect everyone to introduce one self to include sexual prefrence. What and who you do in private is better left in private. unless otherwise is a turn on to you, then hey! whatever rocks your boat. So, how's the windy city? oh and i don't think it's much different.

Reply to Dont be afraid Thanks for the Advice... The Windy City is great! I agree with the card we are dealt being fucked up. Its like being in the middle of the baseball and softball team and cant decide who to cheer for.. yet deciding to go with either one that wins. I also feel that telling my mom might clear some air and ease some tension, or it might destroy a relationship. I am not sure.

Just bend dad over give him a good butt fucking, then....and only then will he understand