i broke up and now i'm obsessed! yesterday i broke up with my party-girl gf and felt good. she was jerking me around for 5 months tellinng me she loved me, wanted marriage/ with me. then, she spent time with family in europe, and suddenly it changed and she had no feelings for me. we lived together and had great times. i miss her and cant sleep or eat now. so depressed! what can i do. i do not want to contact her.

you deserve... a woman with her head screwed on straight. Just start meeting new people and take things slow. You just learned what most women already know, don't listen to the their words...just look at a persons actions.

sometimes the fast romances are the hardest to get over, especially when someone changes that quick.... but I am sure that with time you will find a much better girl that deserves you!

there were many red 81611s but because she was sooo freakin hot, i overlooked them. was i stupid?

because honestly girls like that think they can have whatever they want when its convenient for them....I would say that is time to just move forward and forget her...

Make a clean break You want something from her she isn't prepared to offer. Don't torture yourself - make a clean break and find someone more suitable to date. Don't keep giving her the opportunity to jerk you around.

good advice, thx all i'm just crazy right now. it'll take time. love sux. so does sex with a hot chick. it fucks with your brain and common sense.

neither of those things suck. (ok, well maybe the hot chick sucks--but not in a bad way.) they're actually quite glorious. what sucks is when they happen with someone who doesn't want or know how to be kind to you. better luck next time!

you aren't playing fair you dumped her because she wouldn't do a little thing, a little thing you extrapolated. Still fair enough, we all have our red 81611s. Now you say you wanted to keep the door open, she says fine, and now you're ing her out on that? Leave her alone. If you're superior, look for someone that meets your standards.

Totally agree with that. I was in a really quick relationship a few months ago and it was the hardest one I've ever had to get over. I dreamt about him all the time and had to listen to music while I slept so I wouldn't anymore. I wouldn't eat and didn't go out of the house unless necessary in fear that I would run into him. And it's not the fact that he was perfect for me, because I knew damn well he WASN'T. I had suspicions of him cheating because he changed so much as well. Going from wanting to be with me constantly to me begging him to hang out. But... I'm finally over him for good and if you give it time you will be too. Good luck!!!!!!

superhot, spoiled, partier hi-maintenance. need i say more?

And you miss that? Again, drama

Superhot only lasts so long Spoiled and high-maintenance lasts forever.

From experience Youre doing the right thing by letting her go. Shes going to keep screwing you around as much as possible. Shesthose girls who loves the ntion from guys at bars and such. You dont need that kind of drama its not worth it. Its never been worth it for me.

I can't believe I'm going to do this but you seem like you could use a laugh. Listen to this: Stay strong, don't contact her, and try to aim for someone that suits you better before you give your heart away again. Good luck. Eat something soothing and get some rest. Not taking care of yourself will just make you less capable of dealing well with your emotions.