I WILL find a FWB in the CE section.. I WILL!!! Whether I have to post here for some pointers or not. I'd go to the help section, but that would be quite the interesting topic, now wouldn't it? I'm trying to find a FWB off of the Casual Encounters section, to no avail... I'm attractive, remotely normal, funny even, have all the other necessary components.. Am I posting on the wrong site? I.E. There is the Longisland., as well as the newyork.-long island section. What the crap am I doing wrong? I'm not asking anything more than your typical sexual desires, vanilla if you will.. Help me find some sexy lady to come play secretary with me!!! ;c) I promise in turn, to keep a descriptive memoir, and post it here... Oh yeah, and lower taxes...

I would guess that fact that you are remotely normal is not helping your chances. In general tho, I'm gonna guess that single guys will not have much luck there.

Well.. It's all relative... I mean, I say that in the sense that I'm not asking for any punches in the face while I climax, and I'm not going to ask you to shove inanimate objects in your who-who.. Don't get me wrong, some people are into that sort of thing, and that's fine.. I just think that it would be easier finding a vanilla friend with benefits, rather than a hardcore suspension addict that cannot make it though metal detectors... Maybe I'm wrong.. ? I've always loved the concept of the internet bringing two of the same tree together, though.

I'm curious why you brought this question to the kinkfo...considering you are just looking for a vanilla fwb. Perhaps rofo is the best place to ask this.

unless of course it was just an end run around a personal ad .

yeah - he doesn't want to get 'punched in the face' or have anything put up his hoo-hoo haha

Hey now....maybe he's talking a kink I haven't heard of yet!!

Is a hoo-hoo just a mor complicated Ho-Ho and when did Hostess start making them? Inquiring minds want to know

Guess you are going to have to have some sort of friendship with her, if you'd like to explore these fantasies. I'm not going to judge if you are vanilla or not - it's all relative. Yeah for the ropes! And, playing dom!! Dressing up is so fun!