wives w/ strap-ons = ? My husband and I have been together since I was 14 (we didn't get married until I was 20 though). We are very close and he's the only guy I've ever been with. I sometimes find myself wanting to make love to him/fuck the shit out of him with a strap-on. He wont let me though and I don't think he's into that but every time he bends over in front of me I have the most powerful urge to grab him by his hips and start thrusting away at him. And about 90% of the time I do. He laughs it off and thinks its cute. Maybe in a perfect world my husband would be bi also but he isn't... so I was wondering do any other guys have wifes that do this? Or is this normal androgynistic behavior?

have you talked to him you know they say its the best organism a guy can have. you need to easy him into it like when you are sucking his dick. start to play with his balls. then when you put your mouth all the way to the base start to massage the ass hole. then suck on the head while stroking his dick and then start putting it in he should love it.

did you say the best orgasim? They always say a man can have orgasm from it.. really?

No. they said organism. =) But I know what was trying to be said. It's ok!

nothing weird about strap-on fetish I am not sure what would be weird about strap on.. However having the real thing in the presence of a female is always greater.

not always depends on the people

Can you give me few Ideas ? Can you give me few ideas?.. it is always good to learn more

actually.. I find that my own slippery/wet vagina-based lubrication works just great.. and it turns him on so that's a plus.

thank you everyone for all the great advice ^^ and thank you kittyman I def. learned a thing orfrom your post. Especially concerning the soft dildo instead of a harder one, I didn't know that. I will be sure to be more considerate about my own holes when it comes time to consider his. :) thanks again